Nope, actually not judging you at all. That would make me a hypocrite.
I'm challenging your statements which IMO come across as contradictory in order to try to better understand your POV. I'm not injecting my own personal beliefs at all at this point.
Of course each sitch is unique as are it's issues. Frankly, I see my sitch very clearly as well.
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
