So yes, Gucci and Pinhead were right, I am now 99,99% sure there is an OW4, and the one I suspected it is. No need to snoop, the Dropbox we share (and he knows I can see it) is full of pics and videos he took on their joint time at various dropzones. The last one being from the town 2hrs drive from here, where his aunt lives. History repeats, he took OW2 too to his aunt's house 10 years ago. This time I don't have solid proof he actually took OW4 to meet his aunt, but I know he always visits her when hes there.
Since neither MIL nor his aunts call me any more, I have every reason to believe that whole family knows. Finally, BIL got married last Thursday, and my DD was invited to attend the ceremony, but I wasn't. We are separated but nobody filed yet, technically I'm still married.
I dropped the rope completely after this, and intend to mail him tomorrow to come pick up his remaining stuff next week. I don't think I would ever want him back even if he crawls back and begs me to take him.
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Me:48 H:48 M:23, T:27 DD 24 Bomb 1 07/27/10,IDLY,moved out without notice while I was at funeral Bomb 2 09/30/10, "I can't return home, I want D" Found out OW in picture since 07/09 D'd: 04/01/11
