You are very right GW! I feel in control of my life and am starting to realize how many opportunities are open to me now. I always wanted to practice in another country for a while and travel... I can now go wherever I want! That is liberating. Not that I would trade that in for my marriage but, if that is the way it is going to be, I am going to live it up
I keep thinking about something else that happened yesterday. My H is known for being a real people-pleaser and that is why people really value him in the hospital. Yesterday, I requested a procedure on a case and have to do that by asking him when he is on... He tried to withhold! Shrugging his shoulders and telling me they would do it if they had time. He NEVER does this to ANYONE... I shrugged my shoulders too and said that it is Dr. XXX that will be doing the procedure so you two can decide when you want to do it. That snapped him out of it and the procedure was done immediately. LOL! My mood and telling him I don't want to discuss our personal life at work seemed to really get to him. Good or bad, IDK but come on... really? trying to pull that BS at work?
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
