Wife is cheating, am sad but confused?

[HopelessInLove]

it has been an interesting 2 days. She has been hot and cold to me but no surprise there.

She has been saying that for a while now I have completely different that the person she has known for 17 years. W- your personality is 180 degree different than who I was. I would think one should be happy with wanting to be happy and smiling and keeping there temper under check. Thank you to who ever recommended N.U.T.s to me!

I know that my changes are at least getting noticed by her, I feel a hell of a lot better, I am enjoying my kids more and learning how to get through to them without as much harsh discipline.

She has been a little bit more willing to tell me what is bothering her. But as soon as she is nice to me, a few minutes later she backlashes.

Goal: Detach! Check!!! But will continue.

I have not mentioned anything yet of transparency with info on OM and her. I have not check what is going on with her and OM. Should I pry?