Thank you guys for your comments, but let's see what the "elites" have to say. Since so many of them come from there pedestals to help us "unfortunate" ones.
the people here who give back are not elite, it's a form of gratitude for what we learned and experienced. we are not above anyone on some pedestal, maybe you need to change your perspective.we have all been in your shoes.
Some posts seem a little self righteous, but I understand that writing things out can sometimes look worse than what it actually is.
It's good to know we were all in the same place at least once. I am grateful for the paying forward from the "Experienced" ones.