According to the DB "Elites" WHO ARE with their spouses come in and tell you "Set Em Free" it makes me question WTF are we here for?
Why would the people who DB'd and are with their WAS again tell you to "set them free" ?
Seems there is a pattern here.
You can set them free without dating.
Originally Posted By: Coach
Why hold onto someone who doesn't want to be married. Take all the pressure off them and give them what they want - standing by, waiting for them to change, holding onto your vows, threatening them etc - it's all pressure. Put yourself in their shoes, what does it look like?
So "holding onto your vows" and your beliefs is not really pressuring them, correct?
