I told him his way out of this was to tell her he would reconsider and not leave IF she went to Retro...This would have worked because she was in panic when he first told her he was moving out...
Retro would give them their best chance to turn this around for good without him leaving AND seen as a show of strength... It would have been perfect because she would have thought of it as her doing it because she wanted to do it, not because she was forced. If not, he should have then followed through on what he told her and moved out. MANY times moving out and getting some space apart is EXACTLY what is needed for both parties to see clearly... (Coach and Greek are an example of it WORKING)
He is now looking again like Pensacola.. Emotionally changing their minds as the wind blows...
The facts point out that Pin had decided to leave because he had realized that he did NOT want
to live with a woman who wasn't attracted to him. He also said that he now knew how SHE felt. This among other things he was then saying about why he was leaving. These were all good and legitimate reasons.
Now he is trying to tell us he was only doing it to get a response from her....
Typical of a person who follows their daily feelings. I suspect that it is really more he just got scared that moving out was getting close and suddenly he panics. Wishy washy.... Not attractive to women.
