Never actually thought I would be here...

[EJohn]

Hi Konfuseeed. (I don't post often, mainly read and absorb)I haven't read thru your whole sitch, but my W and I got back to together about the same time as you and yours......and it is very difficult. So if it has been or has felt good so far, that is fantastic.

From what I've read, this is the hardest part of the whole process. The trust issues are massive. I always feel like there's a hidden agenda, which of course she can feel that vibe from me, so its hard for her to open up. Emotions feed off each other, so try to keep positive.

Take it slow.