I still havent told the W that I would join them or not on halloween. She sent a text tonight asking if iwas going to let her know what my plans were for the kids tomorrow and if she needed to cancel their plans. She knew for the last 4 days I wanted to take them to an air show, so whether she truly made plans for them or not, who knows. Just another test I believe. I also mentioned to her that I wanted to take them to the church function prior to trick or treating on sunday. She said that wont work, she would not have them in their costumes all day. I replied with, they dont need to be in their costumes for the function, we will make it work.

She then says you are more than welcome to join us for trick or treating. I did not say yes or no. I said we will figure it out, I have to go. and left it at that. She has known for 2 weeks I wanted to take them to the function. So this is another power play on her part, but again I am not going to let her control it.

My kids and I will have fun tomorrow at the air show, My S loves the fact my Dad was a navy pilot and loves planes. My D will just like the booths and all the stuff!!!!! they are so awesome I cant wait to spend the day with them!!!