To Date or not to Date?

[irishblessings]

I usually post on the MLC site. This idea of dating or standing - it is completely an individual stand. This whole nightmare has caused me to take a good, long look at myself and my own values. I married and took vows that truly meant something to me. For better or worse - who defines worse? In sickness and in health. This is not easy - but after a lot of soul searching I came to the opinion that I want to be able look at myself in the mirror and know that I remained faithful to my vows. It doesn't matter what H does - it's about what I need to do for me.