There has been some GREAT posts the last couple of days.
I want to read a debate on the whole Setting Them Free vs Standing for your Vows.
Personally, I'm not divorcing my W, she is divorcing me. I'm not standing in her way and I'm not trying to do anything other than focus on my happiness.
Just in the last week I've realized how much I have changed and how my attitude is with others. It's brought intense attention to me, like to the point of where I want to live my life, but I'm not divorced yet. Now that I'm giving W what she wants with no pressure other than "If you want a divorce then you are doing the work", when should I not feel guilty about pursuing someone that is interested in me? The new me?
Am I letting my life pass me by or am I standing by my vows until I am divorced?
I really would like to see several "Vets" insights/approach on this.
