You have a very insightful son Cat. He couldn't be more right, and if you can take his words to heart, you'll do just fine. In the early days, it never feels like things will get better, but they do. Maybe alot different, but still better than what we go through at the start of this journey.

Take care of yourself, believe in yourself. Protect yourself as Snodderly mentioned if you are financially tied together. As much as we focus on the emotional aspect of this, it is painfully necessary to also watch our backs on the financial aspect. I know this is a downer to think about, but consider it, you must. You need to remember that you are the only one that can protect you...you cannot depend on your H. He's in a different place right now, and his concerns center around himself first and foremost.

Enjoy your night out! Put aside all that's been going on, and enjoy the show.

Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible