Hello to Eric and all. I did go out and buy the book Codependent No More and have read about half of it. I find it to be helpful. I have been off this week and spent a lot of time working outside and watching some movies from Blockbuster. I have a picnic tomorrow afternoon and will see my mom on Sunday. I decorated the front of the house for Holloween and bought candy for the children. Keeping busy has kept my mind off of my situation. I have had 4 visits from my wife which were all unannounced and she appeared concerned about finding a job and supporting herself. I was friendly and upbeat and I listened to her concerns but offered no solutions. I think she was surprised that I got in the Holloween spirit and she noticed the work around the house. She kept telling me that " I dont't know what I am going to do". I almost felt that she was hoping I would say come back home but I figure if she does then she will let me know in due time. I am trying to be strong and let her figure out what she needs to do for her. Hope all have fun this weekend Bobby O.
