Lol - yeah, I've heard of guys just scatter-gunning it like that. I'm always leery if a guy sends me a note but doesn't reference anything in my profile - heads up to you guys out there, when you write to a woman, reference something specific that she said!
And yeah, I'm gonna skip the marriage part - getting un-married is too much work! I WOULD like to be in a long-term monogamous relationship again eventually, but I'm starting to think that a little break to fool around with the younger guy might not be too bad after all.