You are talking about natural consequences here, in one case, and in the other is is a your child. The "consequences" that come up with "boundaries" are not natural ones, they are choices made by the one setting the boundary.
If I had an affair it would be a natural consequence for my wife to let me know that it was not acceptable.
Certain behaviors are non-negotiable as as far as acceptability in a marriage. We are normally not addressing rolling your eyes, hiding your cigarettes or how to hang the TP. That's why the behavior and the consequences for continuing the behavior need to be thought out.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
