In the process

[flowmom]

Well said gabbysmom. I think that we are in the habit of putting so much energy into figuring out our WAHs, and feeling frustrated about our lack of control over a failing M. We have to watch that guys that we date, or even are in touch with on the internet, don't become our "victims". I know that's a trap for me too, but of course it's easier to see from the outside right? If your interactions with someone don't leaving you feeling AMAZING...then NEXT. Whatever is going on on his end is NOT YOUR PROBLEM...don't make it your job to teach etiquette. Save that for your son and students.

hugs!