You know thinking about this car situation and the charges and some of the things you guys have been sayings.
Many of you keep saying don't change your pans for her decisions. I think I get that now. She's not my problem. We have one car... so her choices have made that a problem for her. We have financial problems.. her choices make that an issue for her.
My choices are solely for me and my son.
Sort of getting back to the Buddhist teaching I received on Wednesday about not allowing outside events/things affect your happiness. She's external from me now, I don't have to react to her needs.
Well put. Bumping it up for you to read it back to yourself.
