He said there is no advantage financially speaking for you to wait your M out
That is pretty telling Grit. Seems like he is only used to people being seperated getting divorced.
From his point of view It makes no advantage for you to stay married either because if you are you don't get to keep all your money instead it goes into a marriage pot.
Sooo, conversely if you did reconcile with your wife who is being nice not knowing how rch you might become, are you going to insist on a post pre-nuptial as part of a boundary?
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It makes no advantage for you to stay married either because if you are you don't get to keep all your money instead it goes into a marriage pot.