Help!, back again after 4 years!!!!!

[WalkingMan]

Sounds like you've got a great attitude. Keep up the PMA. Remember, you will still have lows with then highs. Sometimes all it takes is seeing the WAS or they push some button.

I would say nothing and act as if life is awesome. You have great kids and you're loving life. Dont talk about the R or get trwpped into talking about it. Just be vague and dont get nailed down on anything. If she asks what's up, just say this has been a great week and take care..as you walk away.

She cant touch you.

You exactly right. She needs to feel the consequences of her decisions (on her own) to their fullest extent. She needs to know what life will be without you...on her own. The only thing she should be able to rely on is you being a good dad.

peace!