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I replied "I'm not going to play chambermaid to a drunk...that's the third time it's happened...luckily the girls didn't see you this time"...

I think you did Ok with the speaking part. You shouldn't have this in your home, and you don't need to walk on egg shells because your wife has an alcohol problem.

The question I have is "Or what?". What are you going to do if she goes out, gets drunk, comes home at 1:30 in the morning again?

FWIW, it's starting to sound like she needs to quit drinking before anything positive can happen in her life.