You were ok with DBing before when you were poor, but now that your might win the lottery (hypothetically) you're not so sure?
hrnmmm.
She is interacting nicely with you, with no knowledge of this potential increase in income, but this lawyer now has you worrying about money and what your wife might do?
I think you need to figure out who Grit is, Grit. Because rich or poor, at the core should be the same guy.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK