Sandi if I were to move out I was prepared to do so for as long as it would take. I know my H, I don't think he will want to have us apart.
You're mindreading. Take it from me, you don't want to move out. If anyone should move out, he should. Help him pack. You can give him plenty of "space" in the same house, but it's not space he wants, it's freedom to conduct his affair.
