Again the consequence component was omitted from Bridge's post.. just tells you to set a boundary, doesnt' tell you what to do when its transgressed...
I really am out of patience with this...
There is absoluteily no point in talking about boundaries if you aren't prepared to act in a way to protect them and yourself... And that seems to be what is consistently missing from a lot of this boundary talk...
These aren't boundaries, they are hollow threats... since no one is advocating backing them up...
You are effectively holding a water gun at a gang of terrorists and telling them to back off...
