I'm going to avoid R talks as much as possible. I will never initiate one. I'm not going to initiate jack sh#t anymore, just live my life. Do the things that are fun for me and my girls; while still giving my W the respect she deserves. I really have a lot of things to keep me busy and happy. If she wants a part of them fine. Not my worry. I've spent too much of my life either trying to make her happy, trying to please her, or worrying what she's thinking.
