CTH, You are always going to have feelings for your wife. Always. She was a huge part of your life and left an imprint on your heart. As for feeling that you will never be done -- Idk what the future is but I do know that with time you are going to mend. It's clear though that you haven't let go if you are doing nothing to push the D forward and don'to plan to.
Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
As you know the first date has been postponed so if and when I have that conversation, I guess my answer would be along the lines of ... "The divorce isn't final, and I'm not sure when it will be. I'm not pushing anything because she's the one who filed, but I'll be happy when it's over."
This is a very honest/commendable thing to say, but I can almost guarantee you won't be having 2nd dates. No offense, but ti's true. Because if the women you date want to "date" and want something more than "friendship," that is not going to fly.
