I have gone to UHAUL I brought 20 boxes home they are in the kitchen.
She will see when she comes home tonight.
I have temp moved out because it is easier to detach causes less stress on my Son and I am moving on. She needs to move out and has said she is looking for a place.
I agree she is the one to move out of the house. I also agree with Gucci's recommendations that SOMEONE must leave if not her then me.. it is the only way.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
When in battle, do not relinquish the higher ground to your enemy.
If you think it's hard getting her out of the house with you in it, it probably makes getting her to move out when you aren't in it look like a walk in the park.
I never understood this moving out part of your plan.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
I understand it is hard while y'all are all in the house, trust me, been there, done that...
With that said, here is some advise I received while battling within the same household as my H.
Don't do anything for her. (ie: laundry, cooking, cleaning etc...)
Live as if she isn't living there. (ie: make plans for you and your son, be out GAL)
Don't get sucked into petty crap from her - and yes, she will try.
Don't fight in front of the child, don't be disrespectful etc...
In the end, my H bailed one day while I was at work...It isn't an easy thing to do, but if I can do it, then so can you.
Did you really think I was going to allow him to cheat on me, destroy our family and then me leave?
Never gonna happen.
You want to cheat, you want to "be happy", you want to act like a sullen teenager, act like you don't have a clear thought in your head when it comes to acting like a grown adult man???
There. Is. The. Door.
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
