Thanks TH,

I agree you need to spend less time here and focus on your life. I appreciate your insight. My problem is I dont have the energy to deal with her crap anymore. She mentioned that what I do to her is emotionally draining. I have had little to no contact wiht her going on 2 months now. How am I emotionally draining?

I have let her go,, its what she wanted I have done it. So why still try and tag me or what ever the hell she is doing. Is she still somewhat attached and wont come clean? so she plays these little mind games to get me to react? Its very frustrating.