Thank you.. I appreciate every ones help. Its only been 3 1/2 weeks since I got the news, 4 weeks since the affair started, and one week since I really started DBing.
This is all so new still. Trying to remind myself of that.
All my friends who know my wife or have been in this sitch say its likely she'll be back.
My life IS getting better and if she doesn't come back I am going to be a better person regardless.