I've been following along without much to offer as I waffle back and forth myself. I understand how you felt/feel.
A couple months ago, I was ready to file. In fact, my L has the papers ready for me to sign. Right or wrong, I want her to be the one to pull the trigger. That may change in the future and I will have to be the one to do it to fully protect me and the kids.
I want the ride to stop. I want her to leave. As hard as it is being around her the way she is, I have chosen to stay when most people-friends, family, etc.-have said they couldn't do what I have done and am still doing.
You have gotten a ton of responses and someone said it was because of how much you post and help others. I have to agree. I'm not much of a wordsmith but I post as much as I'm comfortable with and if I think I can help at all. Please keep it up and never give up. We all benefit by having you around.
