Forget the handcrafted pillows and inks. I'm sending you satin sheets; a Japanese silk screen to stand behind and throw your satin dressing gown over; and a pair of mules with maribou feathers.
OOO La La! I am lovin' that Aver!
And, Romeo... whipped cream is good too.
Well, it looks like the kids will be with their dad for the weekend so not only is it party time, it is ME time. I am getting ready for the IRL party on Saturday night and then I'll be throwing my virtual party for you folks.
About my H's "about face".... well.... TBH I am not giving it all that much thought. Maybe that is strange given the fact that I've thought about little else in the last year and a half. But, truly, I can NOT let him have any more power to mess with my emotions and thoughts at this point. I have been to hell and back, not once but twice. I am finally doing well.
I am feeling strong, confident, great about myself and enjoying my life. The kids are doing well and seem to have adapted to the situation quite well. I have great support and a good, secure job. As I said to my dear friend G yesterday, "What's not to like?"
So, I am on my path, and loving it.
He is on his. What he chooses to do is up to him. If he does the work for himself, and it is real and true and HUGE changes are made.... who knows what the future holds.
But who he is now... I choose not to have in my life, other than co-parenting.
OK, now on to much more important things..... party planning!