This is PinHead's "thread" and I've contributed to hi-jacking it. Sorry. PinHead, hope things are working out.
NCU


Me: 46
H:42
Together for 18 yrs, married 14.
3 children: 2 girls 13 and 10, one boy 7.
Husband had affair, ended it and then decided on separation.
Separated 08/2010