Wife is cheating, am sad but confused?

[HopelessInLove]

I know that there is that possiblity. I did confront the first time I suspected a EA with OM. I told her that I wanted it to stop. She said she respected that at first but then when I left the house OM started to check up on W. This is when it went deeper undercover. I set the boundary of W having to leave if I find out she continues with OM. I know that I cannot be naive to the fact W and OM may go deeper, but that will be her choice to end our marriage that way.

Thanks for the warning. I will trust 50% of what she does and 0% of what she tells me. I will detach from her emotionally, and work on myself.

Anything else I should be thinking about?