I suppose you're right, Steve McQueen. We do get excited over small glints that remind us of past glories. We need to hope to go on. But hoping hurts very often. Wondering what he/she will be like this evening when we get home, or (in my case) the next time he phones or comes to collect children. A smile and a kind word sets us up for the day...and to be hurt again and again.

Difficult to make yourself happy when you've bound your happiness to another person for years.


Me: 46
H:42
Together for 18 yrs, married 14.
3 children: 2 girls 13 and 10, one boy 7.
Husband had affair, ended it and then decided on separation.
Separated 08/2010