Wow! Date 3 then were headed for the chapel. I am new at the dating thing and only dated two women so far with second dates lined up. Unless I live in Utah we have laws against polygamy and I hope theay are not that desperate to want to marry someone that they only met a few weeks/months ago.
We certainly are on the same time period here aren't we?
A few thoughts/questions....do you have any idea what your wife is doing these days? I have the same questions you have about why they didn't file.
I finally filed because I don't want to be married to somebody who wants to divorce me, isn't living with me, and isn't willing to work on our marriage. My wife won't even talk to me to discuss how the oldest boy is doing in his new school.
They clearly read the same book.
M-38 W-37 T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999) S-5 S-2 Wife left 7/4/2010
"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?" — Henry Rollins
I cannot believe that your W has no connection with your two young boys. I certainly understand now why you have not considered dating yet because that would probably be too much of a change for them.
I have not filed because I want my STBXW to file. All through our M I have been the one to make the decisions, pay for everything and if you read my thread helped her through school editing her papers, etc. So I want her to do the heavy lifting for while.
I had an interesting issue came up earlier this week. The dating site that I am on had to close my account because someone hacked into it. I reopened it yesterday and started reconnecting with the women that I had been talking to. All of the women once I regained their trust all told me that another person started talking with them claiming that I was crazy and not reliable, etc.
Now I have two pictures on the site a profile picture and a picture of me and another woman, but I put a smiley face over her face. I have the same two pictures on my Fb account...well the picture of me and the other woman was changed and the smiley face was off and another guy in sunglasses standing next to her. There is no way that the smiley face could be removed on the dating site profile.
I am not sure and maybe it is the love of a good espionagee novel, but my STBXW knows that I have FB account and I have not blocked her because that was an avenue for her to see me progressing on with life. However, I am suspecting that she is the one who hacked my account. I used the same password that I use for FB and she knows it...and stupid me never changed it...
I spent all night prooving to these ladies that who they are talking with is the same person that they spoke to earlier in the week. I don't know how the pictures were changed from the smiley face one to my Fb one or who could have gotten into my dating profile other than my STBXW. I was stupid using the same password, but I have so many at work that I have to remember that I just wanted to keep it simple.
