I was with and in love with my stbxh for 18 years, married for 10. I never dreamed that things would end this way.
I can relate. And my W's blow-up happened on Jan 3rd. That was the beginning of the end, even though I didn't see D coming. Never thought we'd get here.
Originally Posted By: flowmom
* my children are unaware of my dating
I'm not dating, but my kids know other kids whose parents are divorced and are dating. My D keeps asking me about girlfriends and getting married again. I tell her that I don't have any girlfriends and that you can't just look at someone and decide from that that you want to marry them. That you have to spend time with them and get to know them first.
I have asked them a couple of times if that lady is wearing a wedding ring. That really upset STBXW. I suppose I shouldn't have done it, but I didn't see it as a real big deal at the time.
