[quote=whatisis Yet you think dating at this time is a good idea! [/quote]
Yeah. I don't care how unpopular it makes me, I am never going to get this sort of thing. I'm too old for such nonsense, and I've already done those sort of things (well, not while married), so I'd be a hypocrite if I said it makes you a bad person, but... based on my observations and personal experience, this whole, "I have no confidence because my entire idea of self-worth was tied up in my relationship, and once that was gone, I was reduced to a needy doormat, so I am going to date to find somebody else to make me feel like I have some worth and help me get over my seperation anxiety" approach doesn't work for me.
One thing I really like about myself is my integrity. I am who I say I am, and I have some self-control, and I am perfectly confident I can be happy all by myself if I happen to be by myself, so I'm going to close one door before I open another one.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
