Effective DBing/ Feedback and Coaching

[sgctxok]

Regarding boundaries....our goal is MORE LOVE in the relationship right?

If we're coming off as authoritative, parental, etc.....well, we might win the battle but lose the war. What good is it if our partner meets our boundary but doesn't love us? OR loves us much less?

How can we get our needs met (our boundaries)....while still growing love?