Originally Posted By: Sanderika
I have been following along every day.

Thank you. I appreciate that. Your words have been a salve for me tonight. I was feeling quite emotionally battered.

MIL has already replied to my apology wishing me a nice weekend and has sent me another sentimental email which I deleted. I feel she has just spewed all over me so she feels good so it's all ok. It's not but I'm not having an email dispute cos it will only be my fault. She doesn't know my journey or the pain I have felt cos she's never been there. She's not known the reconnection H and I have had.

She thinks it's my fault cos I suggested stopping in the second town. Reality is I suggested it cos it's a nice place and I thought they would all enjoy it.

Originally Posted By: Sanderika
Cas, pay her no attention at this point. She is trying to hurt you. Common sense should be telling her to stay out of it. This actually makes me angry :Z!!


The funny thing is MIL told me in the email that she doesn't interfere with her kids cos it's none of her business. Then she proceeded to advise me on what I should do!!