I agree 100%. We have to address our own baggage via GAL, detach and be comfortable knowing that we do not need our spouses to have a happy, healthy life. I think once you are at that stage then I think it is healthy to date. Until then I think you can be susceptible of being "needy" and "latching on". Responsible dating has certainly helped me understand who I am and what I want as well as opened up my eyes in realizing that there is a great wonderful world out there!
