Well, sounds like we all have the exact same wife, only difference is I have two kids that she left also, S7, D5. I found out yesterday that she has stopped wearing wedding rings and then found out she had OM at her apartment last night. I am officially done with her, contacting a lawyer today and GAL'ing. I don't want/need/deserve someone that would do these kinds of things to someone they supposedly love in my life. There will be no friendship even though in her fantasy world we are going to be best friends.......Told her our conversations would relate to children only. Sad that these women just don't get it, she has some serious bad Karma coming her way.

I feel for you NotFromThesePart, there are a lot of us in the same boat.