it IS change... we get all F(@**@ ed up in the daily dynamic and we lose ourselves. I agree that you have to go back and be the person your W loved. For me I was always intense and decisiive. Then we had our son and I became more tolerant and patient. She may have appreciated that sure, but she also may miss the decisive intense guy also.
crazy ass psycho babble,.,,,
I agree about not forgetting my part. I understand what I did. That is the differance btwn her and I at this moment.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10
