Is it okay to date if divorce is filed?

[Jstar]

the more i read the debate about dating after filing and the reasoning behind dating i am more apt to put myself out there.

i think it would be good for me in the sense of breaking that spell or bond i have with h, not the one that is non existent on his side.

i did get an account on speedate to give me some talk with adults and i had no problem being flirty, funny and open. i got asked out on a date, would totally go but i didn't pay for the full membership....the cost i am not willing to do yet.