Still on my journey

[TimeHeals]

i know you despise me and dont want to be around me, but its important for us to get along for the kids, can you try?"

She's mind reading. Don't allow that. Say something like, "Wife, if you want to know how I feel, it's OK to ask me, but it's not OK to tell me how I feel".

She still says she is not worried about any of the D stuff, but that she is worried about me, I do not respond to that.

I'd ask, "You are worried about me?" if it were me just because I'd wonder what other magical thinking she's doing just to keep feeling connected somehow.

She also made acomment about how I tried to lie to her the other day. I of course said what did I lie about this time?

Just flat out tell her that you aren't lying to her, and she has no psychic abilities.

I

think I made TH mad, he doesnt write on my thread anymore.

Mad? Now you are trying to mind-read me. See how that works?

I've been working a lot lately. We had production support layer issues at work since Monday. My wife has been staying over here an aweful lot lately, Halloween is coming up, etc.

I just look at the active threads when I get a chance, and I have been thinking I need to spend less time here and more time taking care of business in my own life.