I think they just expect everything to go exactly like they plan it then get huffy and use the kids aginst you when their plans don't work out.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
I think they just expect everything to go exactly like they plan it then get huffy and use the kids aginst you when their plans don't work out.
That they do, the only one that gets gets what they want is the WW. Dad gets shafted, gets don't get to spend time with Dad.....meanwhile the idiot gets whatever.
Blows
M-38 W-37 T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999) S-5 S-2 Wife left 7/4/2010
"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?" — Henry Rollins
i am curious, and will ask when it comes up again. I am doing what I can to keep working on me, working my @ss off to save my company and help solve this damn homicide ive been buried with.
Good to know your not pissed TH miss ya buddy! I feel like she touches base bcuz she does still care, I GF of mine said women need the emotional support more than the physical. SHe said if you respond to anything, whether is anger, sdness or happiness as long as you respond it shows the woman you still care. That is horseshit, cant win!
i know you despise me and dont want to be around me, but its important for us to get along for the kids, can you try?"
She's mind reading. Don't allow that. Say something like, "Wife, if you want to know how I feel, it's OK to ask me, but it's not OK to tell me how I feel".
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She still says she is not worried about any of the D stuff, but that she is worried about me, I do not respond to that.
I'd ask, "You are worried about me?" if it were me just because I'd wonder what other magical thinking she's doing just to keep feeling connected somehow.
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She also made acomment about how I tried to lie to her the other day. I of course said what did I lie about this time?
Just flat out tell her that you aren't lying to her, and she has no psychic abilities.
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think I made TH mad, he doesnt write on my thread anymore.
Mad? Now you are trying to mind-read me. See how that works?
I've been working a lot lately. We had production support layer issues at work since Monday. My wife has been staying over here an aweful lot lately, Halloween is coming up, etc.
I just look at the active threads when I get a chance, and I have been thinking I need to spend less time here and more time taking care of business in my own life.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
I agree you need to spend less time here and focus on your life. I appreciate your insight. My problem is I dont have the energy to deal with her crap anymore. She mentioned that what I do to her is emotionally draining. I have had little to no contact wiht her going on 2 months now. How am I emotionally draining?
I have let her go,, its what she wanted I have done it. So why still try and tag me or what ever the hell she is doing. Is she still somewhat attached and wont come clean? so she plays these little mind games to get me to react? Its very frustrating.
I plan on asking that when the time comes. I dont want to come out of no where and ask it, would look like that has been on my mind the last 3 days. So when the time is right i will ask what she is so worried about in regards to me?
You ever rent "Philadelphia Story" starring Cary Grant and Katherine Hepburn?
Saw it again last week.
C. K. Dexter Haven: Sometimes, for your own sake, Red, I think you should've stuck to me longer. Tracy Lord: I thought it was for life, but the nice judge gave me a full pardon. C. K. Dexter Haven: Aaah, that's the old redhead. No bitterness, no recrimination, just a good swift left to the jaw.
