Wanted: Large dose of patience

[Sanderika]

Cas,

Should you mention email to H? Very good question.

My instinct would be to save it for now (don't delete). Wait and see H's mood at dinner.

I wonder if he would be appreciative of her meddling or would it anger him....

I think at dinner, I would mention how nice it was to see them and see if I could rise a conversation about their visit with him. At some point, if you can get him talking you could casually mention the email. IDK, this is a tough one...

My motives and moves always were against rocking any boat with my H....FWIW

Sanderika