Its a total joke, when she first went, it was "there's a list of the bills, can you pay some school dinner money" and that was it.
Now it's "I want money off you", for nothing specific, I will buy the kids anything they need, feed and look after them when they are with me, but obviously this is not enough now?
It must be to do with reality as set in, she has bills to pay, and its all on her. She keeps mentioning that I'm still living in the house, yes well I didn't leave!!, she is in a 3 bedroom house close to or home, my daughter said the other day that her bedroom is smaller than my en-suite!!!, I guess the dream is not as good as the reality?
She has changed her emotions totally, from wanting nothing off me, to wanting anything she can get, its not going to happen!
The holiday that I'm looking at to the Caribean has probably tipped her over the edge, I'm getting the kids some great presents, then going on holiday, while she will have to get on with the choices she has made for her and the children, and they are not good ones from were I'm sitting!!
So, do I keep playing hard ball and not let her get to me, YES!!!
I actually feel a certain amount of control, if she pushes for the house sale, so be it, sell it, fine, I will still have my kids, I will still have a good job I have worked hard for, and she will still be struggling by, but she "thinks" she will be happy!!!!!
