Wanted: Large dose of patience

[Sanderika]

Hello Cas,

I have been following along every day.

How could H's birthday have been your fault? I mean really...

H was in a funk from the git go....This woman should not be putting the blame on you...What is her real problem with you?

Does she understand that you do not ask H for anything? Does she know that it is H who comes to you? It has been H offering and doing. It is H, who for weeks on end now, has made a point of keeping in regular contact. You asking H if he still plans on
showing up for your already planned weekly dinners is not necessarily pursuing, it is courtesy on your part...even if simply making sure there is plenty of food for all.

H invited you to his birthday. H invited you to the dinner you all had a couple of weeks back. H has made all the moves to reconnect to you in all avenues!!!

I have to wonder now....What were the conversations between H and his M? I have a sneaking suspicion that H's funk is her fault!!

Cas, pay her no attention at this point. She is trying to hurt you. Common sense should be telling her to stay out of it. This actually makes me angry :Z!!

Cas, you should continue to follow your heart in this matter. I would give it a few weeks to let the dust settle from their visit. Their visit obviously has impacted H. Let's see how he behaves during the dinner this week.

(((((Cas)))))

Sanderika