I asked H via text if he was coming to weekly dinner. He said yes unless he had to work.
I received an email from MIL who suggested I was at fault on H's birthday. She told me that I should move on and not do things for H or have him do things for me and that my only contact should be about the kids. She said that they would no longer come to family dinners and I should get the settlement done asap. I could have responded to the points made but I said sorry and left it at that.
So I feel at a crossroads. I'm doubting myself big time now and feeling I should just sever the ties and move on.