Its not disingenuous to be her friend. I was always her friend. I was that before I was anything else. I was more and plan to be again. Im starting to believe in a female mid-life crisis. Ive seen many couples who married young and after about 7 or 10 years, the wife starts thinking of all the fun she missed out on. And guess who is to blame. Not like I took advantage of a young girl, she was 19 but I was only 21. We wanted to get married, didn't have to (you never have to). But now she has a bunch of new friends and wants us to stay friends. At the very least I want to be friends. But I said "forever and unconditional love" and I will keep that vow so help me God.
M-34 W-31 2 S,11&11 1 D, 6 T 13 YEARS M 12 YEARS ILYBINILWY OCT. 2009 We are too close. All we see are smears of paint. The Lord sees the masterpiece He is painting.