XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

[lea74]

Hi all, you are all right. Firstly it is harrassment as this isnt the first time it has happened and quite frankly I am sick of it. She has been warned before and my S has suggested an injuction. I am not sure if I will go that far as I know it would cause an issue for my sons. Also she has been told by a judge, my L and the a court reporter that the purpose of the phone calls are for my XH to foster a relationship with my sons.

Honestly if she chatted to them on the a couple of times, I wouldnt mind. And have turned a blind eye before. HOwever, why XH feels the need to always include he in every conversation is beyond me. It actually goes further than that. Every decision he makes about my sons XH says he needs to refer to the OW, she has also gone to my sons school talks. He is trying to replace me with her. I had always thought that her attraction to XH was my kids.

Yes, she is sick and I do worry about my sons. They tolerate her - not like her. My sons are also scared of XH. (In fact he has been abusive before, I have never laid a finger on my sons. I dont believe in smacking).

I am trying to take the high road, and am trying to protect my sons and not to put them in the middle, however I am only human.

When incidents like this happen, I am so grateful that I dont have him in my life anymore. I have endured 21 years of emotional abuse and although it is now on a smaller scale I can manage it. better.

I have sent an email to my L detailing all the texts and will see what she says. We are actually in court on monday to discuss child contact so will bring this all up then.

Thanks for all the advise.

((( ))))